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"I hope you die, you scum."

- David, OMC Visitor

 

 

(first names only to maintain privacy; feedback posted as is)

 


Name: daryl
Subject: wow

Date: 7/30/05

Message:

gotta say, you are one sick son of a bitch. fathers of dead soldier sons crying? i hope you sleep well at night.

 

 


Name: Monica
Subject: Amazing.

Date: 7/14/05

Message:

I think crying is sometimes a necessary part of life. Sometimes I cry when I feel very little at all is wrong. The mixture of photos and sound files and videos and linked research, here, makes it all very real. Sadness, unbearable stress, all of that. It's real. Everyone has to deal with it. (Even if sometimes it's kinda funny.) Wonderful website. I salute you!


 


Name: Andrew
Subject: a new low

Date: 7/14/05

Message:

I can't believe you're asking for contributions for this exploitative shit. What a bunch of cunts. Haven't you got anything better to contribute to the world? How can you get amusement out of a man crying for his dead child? It's easy to distance yourself when your sat in front of a computer screen all day, but these are real people. Rant over.

 

 


Name: Katlyn
Subject: wow..

Date: 7/1/05

Message:

this page is very depressing..haven't cried like that in a long time.

 

 


Name: Thomas
Subject: Quotation
Date: 6/19/05


Message:

"We must relearn how to cry. A strong man cries; it is the weak man who holds back his tears." -Archie Fire Lame Deer, LAKOTA

 

 


Name: stijn
Subject: your site

Date: 6/14/05

Message:

ok wait a sec.... you call their tears ''disproportionate to the event'' while the first three pictures show fathers holding their dead child, thats not right i think....

 

 


Name: Joe
Subject: Old Men Crying
Date: 6/13/05


Message:

This is sick!!!! Why would anyone create a site like this?

 

 


Name: Matthew
Subject: My feelings about your site

Date: 6/10/05

Message:

Hi, came across a random link to you from memepool.com. When i first saw the site i was in hysterics thinking it was some sort of weird humor-thing going on highlighting the oh-so-often-seen false tears of people in the public's eye. Then i looked at some of the images in the gallery and realised it was much more serious than that as a lot of the images were of quite personal painful scenes. What's it all about? Is the site supposed to show the falseness of some of its subjects in contrast to 'real' crying!? But then there are images from 'less serious' scenarios. I find it a bit uncomftable that the two types of images are side-by-side. Am still not sure what to make of it!? Confused!?

 

 


Name: Mary
Subject: wow

Date: 6/1/05

Message:

Hey, I found your website by chance, and I'm a little puzzled by your guests who think it's suppposed to be 'funny' or 'sick'. I think it's tragic and beautiful. It touched me deeply and I'm sure it's touched many other's as well. I applaud you for your work. Please continue this site, if it can make someone as jaded as me feel something, then surely it can and will affect many others as well. Again, this site is very well done. Thank you for showing the world that yes, boys do cry!

 

 


Name: David
Subject: are you serious??

Date: 4/20/05

Message:

Have you no humanity?.......Have you never shed a tear over the loss of a loved one?....You take suffering and expose it for all to see....you are a fucking embarrassment

 

 


Name: Sheri
Subject: George Bush

Date: 3/10/05

Message:

I'm not really sure what your website is about, other than men crying. But it lost validity when you wrote for caption 9-12-03 "there he goes again...Pres Bush crying about terrorist...".

I didn't know this was a politically-biased website. What a shame. I didn't know that our president wasn't allowed to grieve.

 

 


Name: Chris
Subject: crying

Date: 1/24/05

Message:

When I saw the pictures, I wept.

Thank you.


 


Name: khan
Subject: making friendship with old men

Date: 1/15/05

Message:

i am khan i am 25 years old.i have done master.please send email address for friendship.please contact to me.i love all persons.


 


Name: LaTourelle

Subject: Men Crying - Hallelujia !!

Date: 12/04/04

Message:

I am so very happy to hear about you on CNN !

You are doing great work in the world opening up the reality of the importance of men crying, letting go of their grief.

I have been teaching emotional intelligence and healthy tears in infants to the dying for 33 years and I have no doubt in my mind the spiritual and emotional importance of allowing grief to be released from our hearts and minds through tears, sobbing and wailing AND laughing.

I'm about to send this site to my many students. Thank you!


Name: Zach

Subject: Don't look at it

Date: 12/03/04

Message:

For those who find fault in this site, don't look at it. If you are unwilling to examine the heartfelt suffering throughout the world, then return to your ignorant lives. If I were unjustly pushed into a position of grief, I would want my pain to be apparent throughout the world. To the makers of the site, keep it up.


Name: PHDEE

Subject: crybabies

Date: 12/02/04

Message:

What is this weeping pussy show? You are making me laugh and its a crying shame.All this false humility.Shame, shame diaperboy.


Name: Doc Jefferson

Subject: Men who cry

Date: 10/24/04

Message:

There's a difference here. The wailing of a man who cries out loud, heaving like a child crying out for no other reason than for someone to come and make it all better. That's one thing. But then you have the silent tears of a man who is suffering. Sometimes old men are reduced to children, sometimes old men suffer.


Name: Calmicky

Subject: Tears for my sparrow

Date: 9/29/04

Message:

Your site, it has moved me. It brings to mind the last time I, the defender, was moved to weep. On a cloudless day in The Month Who Knows No Tales, Pantra, the Great All-Knowing fell in glorious battle. It was then that I shed a single, glorious tear that glistened in the mid afternoon sun. I swallowed that tear as I swallowed the souls of the unclean. This I did in rememberance of him.


Name: Stu Pine

Subject: Viewer Mail and more

Date: 9/20/04

Message:

To those writing to complain or whine about this site...get over it you pussies.

To the owners of this site, I suggest sticking to material that exposes the obvious phonies and leave the innocent sufferers alone.


Name: Ron

Subject: Beautifuly Healing

Date: 7/22/04

Message:

I believe this site is beautifuly healing. I don't think it is either sick or funny as some immature viewers seem to believe. What is sick in this culture is the expectations put on men of being unmanley for shedding tears. In the end all we have are our tears.

 


Name: John

Subject: The Tears of Old Men make me weep with joy

Date: 7/13/04

Message:

Recently while searching the mighty Google Intraweb for photos of a contrite John Kerry (needed for a mea culpa you can read all about at www.wangoed.com) I came across your crying photo and shouted with delight. OldMenCrying.com is the latest in a series of über-1337 sites poking fun at whatever, all of which are very necessary. I wish you the best of luck good sir.


Name: Jeremy

Subject: real truth

Date: 6/16/04

Hello...

What you are showing us people is the real truth. It's a beautiful thing to cry. not very many people cry in public. Its an art... any ways...


Name: Jaime

Subject: Devestation isn't reason to exploit tears

Date: 4/22/04

So at first, when i read about this site on craigslist, i thought it would be kinda cool, probably funny like a lot random sites are....but looking at the pictures and other people comments, i'd have to agree, this is a twisted website. You take pictures of people at their most intimate and vulnerable time....do the fathers that just lost their sons and the police officers mourning a fallen patner know they are on a site that just sits and makes fun of crying men. Sure i'd like to see Georg W. cry, show he has some humanity or Bill Gate cry because, what the hell should he be sad about, but i don't want to see a picture of a crying Palestinian whose wife was just blown up---we see this enough in the news. you should be as ashamed of yourself for this website as i am horrified that it exists. Where the picture of you crying?


Name: jonny

Subject: YOUR SITE RULES

Date: 4/7/04

oldmencrying.com kicks ass! it is sooooo funny i couldnt stop laughing for ages!


Name: Boogie

Subject: Oldmencrying.com

Date: 2/14/04

Amazingly interesting. I didnt find it funny as much as I found it fascinating. Great website you have there, even if it is insensitive, its this kind of free speech the internet is all about.


Name: Zacharais

Subject: Amish men don't cry

Date: 2/7/04

My name is Zacharais... I am Amish. I am married, and thus able to grow a beautiful beard. I don't have a moustache. This would be the devil's work.

I write to tell you that Amish men don't cry. If they did, we would stone them for weakness in the face of our LORD GOD.


Name: Kathy

Subject: crying men

Date: 1/27/04

Hi:

I don't know if you are keeping track of fiction or not but when I read about your site I couldn't help but think of the popular work by Suzanne Brockmann. She writes romance novels in which the main characters are rough, touch Navy Seals. And at least once each book the main character breaks down in tears. It is fascinating.


Name: David

Subject: old men crying

Date: 11/14/03

what sort of sick freak are you, some of these are funny (old man on bus) but some are sick. what sort of pearson sets up a site at the cost of so much sadness. war victims, funerals, dead loved ones. one is called suffering serb how can you justify that. this site is sick but not as twisted as the bastard that set it up. i hope die, you scum.


Name: livvaaaaaaaaaaaayyy

Subject: UmMmMm.............I DUNNO.

Date: 11/3/03

this website is a wee bit harsh! to show people crying at their sons funeral ect. is very upsetting 4 me...how wud u like it???????


Name: Richard

Subject: How would you feel?

Date: 10/6/03

You seriously make me sick how can palestinian men mourning the death of loved ones be funny. Its sick. Im not an angry trouser wearing, community fundraising mom, but i dont think some of these photos are right. Things like bil gates and the pope crying are funny Ok, but how ould you feel if your wife, daughter,mother or the most important person in your world died and at their funeral i took pictures of you crying and plastered them over the internet for laughs. Just seriously take a moment to think how sick i was. How about someone you knew became terminlly ill and i had a picture of u crying about and showed the world. Tell me how you'd feel i would realy like to know.


Name: M.E.

Subject: rubbish

Date: 10/3/03

this site is just in-sensitive and so not funny. you should be asshamed of your selves